Showing posts with label daily chores. Show all posts
Showing posts with label daily chores. Show all posts

Friday, March 20, 2015

Sanity Saving Advice for Your Homeschool Week

I have found that when I fail to plan for our week things don't happen!  School work doesn't get done, housework doesn't get done, and meals don't get cooked!  In order for these things to happen I have to plan out our week.  I use a homeschool planner, chore charts and a menu to make sure that our life runs smoothly.

The homeschool planner is just merely our lesson plans written out.  I made copies of our lesson plans from the teachers manual, that way I can write in extra stuff we do and I can check off what we did accomplish.  They are then divided by which child its for, so I have one for Elijah which is Exploring Countries and Cultures and then one for Noah which is his 1st grade work.  I also have a yearly schedule printed up and that is where I keep track of our field trips and how many days we have done school.  We are not required to keep this information in my state but I still like to have a record of how many days we have done school.  I keep all of this in a 3 ring binder.  Every Sunday night I get all our papers and things set out for the week and I look over lesson plans.  I prefer to do this on Sunday night rather than say on Friday afternoon, because then come Monday morning it's still fresh in my mind of what we are doing for the week.

Our menu board is really simple!  Its a small dry erase board that is hanging in our kitchen. I tried other "systems" and never stuck with them, they all seemed too complicated and all I really needed was something simple.  I change it out every week.  I grocery shop every two weeks, so I meal plan for two weeks at a time.  I typically just plan for dinners.  Breakfast in our house is either cereal, cereal bars, frozen pancakes/waffles, or Elijah likes to make himself oatmeal in the microwave.  For lunches we will either do PB&J or deli meat sandwiches, hot dogs, spaghetti o's, or mac and cheese (I know super not healthy!!  I am working on it!!).  So when I grocery shop I just know to buy those types of things, along with items needed to make our dinners.



Chore charts are another thing that can be either super complicated or super simple.  I have been everywhere on this scale, from boards that we changed out daily to boards that we changed out weekly, and now we are on a set chore schedule.  My kids each have a list of items that are their responsibility and items that they are paid to do.  For Elijah, age 10, his responsibilities include, making his bed, cleaning his room (including vacuuming), doing his own laundry (wash, dry, put away), taking out the trash in the kitchen, bathrooms, and our school room.  His paid chores are vacuuming other rooms, cleaning the bathroom, and doing his brothers laundry (wash, dry and brought upstairs).  Noah, age 7, his responsibilities include clean his bedroom, put his clothes away, feed the fish, dust, help load/unload the dishwasher.  His chore list consists of doing his laundry, vacuuming, and cleaning the bathroom.  For Zach, age 3, his list is pretty short, his responsibilities are set the table for dinner, put his clothes away, wipe the table after meals, and clean his room.  At this point he doesn't get paid to do any chores.  I just typed up these lists and Noah and Zach keep theirs on the fridge, Elijah has his hanging in his room.  For their chores, they can choose to do them  throughout the week to earn extra money, but every Friday they are required to do them.



Implementing these three things has drastically reduced the chaos in our week.  The old saying of "Fail to plan, plan to fail" is very accurate!

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Finding Joy in the Mundane

Lately I have been feeling pretty blah!  Yes it's winter, yes it's cold!  Also add to that feeling stuck inside with wacky, crazy, high energy boys its enough to make a person go nuts!!  But you know what?  I am still looking for joy in these little blah moments of life.  Finding joy in the mundane is not always an easy task.  It can be very difficult at times.  Today I'd like to share some ways that help me find joy in the everyday tasks of life.

1)  Open each day with a Quiet Time in devotions and prayer.  This has taken quite some time for me to figure out, but finally I have a good time to get some devotions in.  My routine is to get up, shower and get ready and then have my quiet time. I spend anywhere from 15-20 minutes in a devotional book and prayer.   I do this all before leaving my bedroom in the morning.  I have found that if I come out of my room, then its all over!  The kids know that I will be available when I come out.  They are getting really good at getting their own breakfast and playing until I am ready.  The point though is to make this a priority!  We all make time for what is important and for me I had to make this an important task, just like showering!




2)  Spending time daily in the Bible.  Along with daily quiet times, I also spend time just reading through the Bible.  One goal I have set for myself this year is to read chronologically through the Bible.  I have never read through the entire Bible before and I thought reading it chronologically would be a good place to start.  I spend about 15-30 minutes, 5 days a week reading a section of scripture.  I take time in the afternoons after I finish school with my older boys and while Zach is resting to do this.  I am following a plan by Jennifer Jernigan at Diving Deeper Ministries. 


3)  Serving others!  For me I have to think of my job as a mom as an act of  service or I tend to dwell of the horridness of it all!  Yup, I just said that!  I HATE doing household chores!  So in order to not hate it so much I look at all the dirty clothes, dishes, and toys as wonderful blessings!  I am so blessed to be serving my family by cleaning their clothes, washing their dishes and stepping on their toys!


4)  Don't dwell on the mess!  Finding joy to me means not stressing over dishes in the sink and toys scattered throughout the house.  I choose not to let these discourage my attitude.  I choose to let them make my heart joyful, for the same reason as above, its an amazing blessing! I always think of this saying "Excuse the mess, my children are making memories!".  I know that this season of life is just messy!  I have 3 young kids, and I would rather spend my time loving on them than fussing over the cleanliness of my house!  YES, I do clean, my house is not filthy its just not spotless and showroom worthy either!


5)  Laughing with my family!  Lastly, I find joy by just laughing with my family!  My kids are super funny and love to laugh!  Elijah loves the Peanuts comics, even though I think they are not that funny he thinks they are hilarious!  So I choose to laugh along with him!  Noah loves to play rough, so I play rough and wrestle with him, that makes him laugh!  Zach likes to be tickled and tells amazingly funny tales.  Also as a family we love to watch Americas Funniest Home Videos that comes on every Sunday night.  As a tradition we make popcorn, I cut up apples and we watch AFV, that is a great family time of laughing together!

How do you find joy in the mundane?

Friday, August 30, 2013

Easing into our Routine (Part 2)

Along with getting back to school, it was also time to get back to chores!  Over the summer we had pretty much slacked in making the kids do their chores.   They got used to getting up in the morning and eating breakfast while watching TV.

I had totally intended to do a Back to School Boot Camp type of thing the two weeks leading up to school starting.  With my parents still being in town, and wanting to spend time with the kids that didn't happen.  So we started it last week, this meant, no TV in the morning, eating breakfast at the table, and completing chores in the morning.

To begin with we worked on the kids staying in bed until 7:30, which by the end of the week turned into, staying in bed until mommy comes to get you!  Then after they get up, immediately they are to make their beds, get dressed, brush teeth, and do their devotions.  Ideally this should give me time to make breakfast, so far that hasn't been the case, like I said we are working on it.  We call all of  that our morning checklist.

These are permanent, not removable cards, since these are the same every day.


After breakfast, its time to start our morning chores.  Over the summer I worked hard finding a perfect chore system.  I realized that none exist!   In the end I decided to go with one that is similar to our workbox system.  So far the kids love it, it helps them know what is done and what still needs to be done.  I used the printable chore cards from Homeschool Creations, but I made my own charts.  I wanted them to be color coded using their family color.  Here is what our charts look like:
Here is our set up, this is in our kitchen right under our family dry erase calendar.

Typically I will give the kids 4 chores a day, I just threw some up to show what they look like filled.

When the chore is completed they place their cards in this magnetic box attached to our refrigerator.


If you are looking for some great chore chart ideas you can check out my Pinterest board!  I have a ton of things pinned that I scoured over for a long time trying to decide what I liked the best!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Daily Chores


I realized that in order to have more freedom in our schooling I wanted my boys to carry more responsibility around the house. Then it was brought to my attention that Big E was capable of doing more than we were giving him credit for!  After lots of research into age appropriate chores I came up with this list.  So far its working out great!!

We are still working on our bathroom cleaning duties as those tasks take a lot more training.  They are color coded with our family colors, which is a new system we started.  That helps Little N know where his chores are.  :)  We are starting young too, Baby Z has "chore" to do as well.  He is helping clean up toys, although not too much yet, hopefully in the next few months he will begin to get it more.

 You can also notice that I have them divided up into Morning, Afternoon and Evening chores, this helps us to break up our day a little with not having a bunch of chores at one time.  



Morning Chores

Chore
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Laundry
Mom
Elijah
Mom
Elijah
Mom
Dad
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Unload Dishwasher
Elijah
Elijah
Elijah
Elijah
Elijah
Elijah
Elijah
Wipe Table and Chairs after Breakfast
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Bathrooms




Shower/Floors- Mom
Mirrors/Toilets- Elijah
Sinks/Tub- Noah


Windows




Living Room- Noah
Dining Room- Elijah






Afternoon Chores

Chore
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
HandwashDishes
Mom
Mom
Mom
Mom
Mom
Elijah
Dad
Living Room Floor Pick up
Elijah andZach
Mom andNoah
Elijah and Zach
Noah andZach
Mom andElijah
Mom andZach
Whole Family
Empty Trash
Mom andElijah


Mom andNoah

Dad

Swiffer all floors
Noah

Noah

Noah


Mop




Mom


Vacuum


Dining Room and Living Room- Elijah

All rooms- Elijah


Wipe Table and Chairs
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Mom
Dusting




Mom




Evening Chores

Chores
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Load Dishwasher
Mom
Dad
Mom
Dad
Mom
Mom
Dad
Wipe Kitchen Counters
Mom
Elijah
Mom
Elijah
Mom
Dad
Mom
Wipe Table and Chairs
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Noah
Mom
Living Room pick up
Elijah andZach
Mom
Elijah and Zach
Elijah andNoah
Elijah andNoah
Mom andElijah
WholeFamily
Bedroom pick up
Elijah andNoah
Elijah andNoah
Elijah and Noah
Total RoomClean Up-Elijah andNoah
Elijah andNoah
Elijah andNoah
Elijah andNoah